The Housemate Interview

This is a good opportunity not only for the personwhere you’d be in close proximity with each
interviewing you but also for you to be sure thatother. If the interview does not serve this purpose,
you’ve made the right decision.your chances of getting selected will be less.
Unlike a job interview, being interviewed as aThird - Interview Your Interviewer
potential housemate follows no specific pattern. ItTake this opportunity to learn more about your
can seem a very nerve-racking experience to gointerviewer and the house or flat on offer. You
through – not knowing what questions to expectwould also need to evaluate for yourself if the
or how you should respond, and not having anyarrangement is going to work for you. Clear all your
information about the other person whom you’redoubts. Discuss basic issues like rental agreement,
meeting.living quarters, house rules, schedules, sharing space,
However, you can be prepared in some ways toand amenities, etc.
secure a better chance of being selected from theSome of the questions you could ask are:
list of potential house shares.- How much rent deposit do I have to pay and how
First - Create a Good Impressionis it protected?
Quite obvious but sometimes neglected. Approach it- How much cleaning or household chores would I be
like a job interview. Your appearance gives people arequired to do?
first impression of you, even before you’ve had- Will you allow overnight guests?
a chance to talk to them. Make a good lasting- Will the kitchen and bathroom be shared or are
impression on your first meeting. It’d probablythey a separate?
give you better chances over other potentialRemember to ask details of what you considered to
housemates.be important to you!
Some of the things you should take care of:Fourth - Be Clear in Your Communication
1. Dress: Dress appropriately. Leave your party wearWhether it’s communicating your needs, doubts
at the club. Usually a casual business outfit should beor expectations, be very clear in your communication.
good enough.Try not to leave things open to assumptions. If you
2. Be on time: When you’re on time, it givesensure that you have clear and transparent
both of you more time to get to know more aboutcommunication right from the start, it sets ground for
your needs and expectations. Moreover, thethe way you communicate in the future.
interviewer may have multiple interviews scheduledAvoid using ambiguous sounding words and phrases
and you being late may not only leaves a badas it leaves communication open to interpretation. For
impression but can also lead to lead to cancellation. Ifexample, if you are asked, “Do you entertain
for some unavoidable reason you’re going to beguests often?” answering just a quick
late, let the person know and if possible reschedule.“yes” may lead the interviewer to assume
3. Manners and Etiquette: Smile! Be pleasant. Offer athat you bring in guests every other day. A more
handshake and greet. Make eye contact and listenspecific answer like – I might have guests about
well. We take most of these things for granted butonce a month, mostly for a day or two – would
can influence the way a person perceives you.give a clearer picture. Again, if you need to ask
Second - Be Naturalquestions to the interviewer, be clear on your
As much as we advocate good manners, being polite,expectations as well.
and observing your etiquette, take care that it doesFollow these four guidelines and be prepared to face
not appear superficial. People can be very perceptive.house share interviews better. Don’t feel
If you go all out to try and please, it may ringdisheartened if you have not been selected. It was
warning bells.probably just a case of your needs and expectations
Be natural in your approach. It is not a job interviewnot matching theirs; not a reflection on your
and it may not be very formal conversation, but letpersonality. Continue your search, refine your
your personality come through. The interview is aapproach, and you’ll surely find the
process to evaluate you as a potential housemate“perfect” housemates.