| Albert Einstein once said that the definition | | | | your bathroom mirror and read it first thing |
| of insanity is "doing the same thing over and | | | | in the morning. Pretty soon, your thoughts |
| over again and expecting different results, | | | | and actions will fall in line with your |
| and when it comes to meeting women online, | | | | words. |
| there are lots of tips and tricks you can use | | | | |
| to help you get out of a dating rut and some | | | | 3) Don't waste time chatting with women from |
| online dating secrets you can apply in order | | | | dating sites on instant messenger. Sure, |
| to get the most of out the online dating | | | | you'll get to know the women better, but the |
| experience. | | | | fact that you have time to sit there and chat |
| | | | decreases your value in her eyes. Your only |
| If you aren't getting the results you'd like | | | | contact with women from online dating sites |
| to get, stop doing the same wrong things over | | | | should via email, which allows you to |
| and over again, and take a look at some ideas | | | | maintain a sense of mystery, which makes you |
| you may not have considered before. | | | | all the more attractive. Let a woman have the |
| | | | opportunity to miss you-something she can't |
| 1) Not every online dating site is for | | | | do if you're always chattingwith her on IM. |
| everyone. Make sure that the site you're a | | | | |
| member of has women who a) live in your area | | | | 4) If a woman persists in trying to get you |
| and b) are the type of women you'd like to | | | | to chat, turn the tables by telling her |
| date. If your dating site is filled with | | | | you're too busy for IM. Then ask for her |
| profiles of women you'd steer clear of in | | | | phone number so you can call her when you |
| real life, it's time to shop for a new site. | | | | have some time to talk. This gives you the |
| And this time, research the site beforehand | | | | upper hand, as you will decide when you will |
| to make sure the type of women you're | | | | make contact with her. And women really do |
| targeting are members. | | | | love men who can take control. |
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| 2) Get your head in the game. Go into every | | | | Above everything else, stay confident. When |
| step of the online dating process with | | | | your confidence is shaken, your whole persona |
| confidence. Don't let even a suggestion of | | | | suffers. And when that happens, you might as |
| someone being "out of your league" creep into | | | | well take a sabbatical from the online dating |
| your thought patterns. Jot down a quick list | | | | game, because the biggest secret of dating, |
| of all the qualities you have that would make | | | | online, or in the real world, is that women |
| a woman feel privileged to date you. Make | | | | place the highest value on men who truly (and |
| copies of the list and keep it where you can | | | | without excessive arrogance) value themselves |
| pull it out and read it out loud when you | | | | first. |
| start to doubt your self worth. Tape it to | | | | |