Negotiating For Your Interest

Many of us subscribe to the Old West credo that athe structure.
deal is finished when both parties shake hands on it.Why would the sellers be so accommodating? It's not
If that's your way of thinking, then be prepared tothat they want to.
get skinned alive when you buy real estate. TheIt's just that once a problem is revealed, it will have
modern credo is "Never stop negotiating"--even afterto be dealt with one way or another, either with you
the deal is signed, even after escrow has opened,or with other buyers. It might as well be you,since
even after escrow has closed and title has passed toyou're already involved in the deal.
you. If you truly want to look out for your ownFurther, seller sometimes simply get desperate to sell,
interests, you won't stop negotiating!Although they were adamantly against loweringtheir
Yes, this is a bit of an exaggeration. Nevertheless,price or giving you a better deal during the initial
those who do get the best deals in real estate arenegotiations, now they simply lay down and roll over.
often those who keep right on negotiating as longI've seen it happen.
as, so to speak, there's anything left on the table.You may negotiate a cash settlement without
Negotiate as Part of Making an Offeractually having a disclosure problem corrected,
The entire process of making an offer involvesprovided the lender doesn't object. For example, the
negotiation. You purchase a home at a certain priceseller s maylower the price $5,000 over a leaking
for specified terms, including contingencies thatallowroof. However, instead of replacing the roof, you
you to back out in certain circumstances. The sellershave it patched for $500 and pocket the difference
read you offer and then either accept or, more likely,(at least until the next rainstorm).
counter at a different price and withdifferent terms,Negotiate During Escrow
perhaps eliminating some of your contingencies andSome buyers with a lot of what might be called
modifying others by limiting them for example, ingallnegotiate right through escrow. As the sellers get
terms of time. Thus the sellers mayagree that youmore and more used to the idea of their home being
can have an inspection, but you must approve thesold, the buyers keep coming up with new concerns
report within, say, 14 days.that can be resolved only by further concessions
Back and forth it goes with counteroffers, andfrom the sellers.
counters to the counteroffers and counters to theI've heard buyers say that they drove by and
counter to the counteroffers. This is the negotiationbecame aware that the window trim was damaged.
process and, depending on how good you are at it,They then wanted several hundred dollars off the
you'll get a better or worse deal.price to have it fixed. If not, they would simply hold
If you get a deal that's acceptable to you andis theoff on buying the home. Yes, these buyers stand a
best you feel you can get, and if the same is truechance of losing their deposit (and more), but the
for the sellers, there's agreement and everyone signs.sellers won't get it either without going to court. In
The presumption is that the deal is made.the meantime, the sellers' house is tied up. It simply
Don't count on it.becomes easier for the sellers toacquiesce than to
Negotiate Over the Disclosuresfight.
A wise buyer knows that the really toughIn a very slow market, buyers may demand a
negotiations frequently don't start until after the dealreduction in price because of market conditions. They
is signed. Usually the next negotiation takes placesimply tell the sellers that prices are going down. The
over the disclosures. Within a few days of signing,youhouse is no longer worth what is was when the
should receive a list of defects in the property asoffer was accepted. Either the sellers accommodate
revealed by the sellers.with a lower price or the buyers refuse the deal.
(If you get the list before negotiation start, then thisOnce again, the sellers have options, none of them
point is moot.)particularly good in a down market. And many will
If your offer was properly filled out (or if your stateacquiesce to placate an irritable buyer.
gives you rights here), you now can back out of theThe sellers could refuse a buyer's new terms, then
deal without penalty. If something seriouslywrong isdemand the deposit, or even demand specific
revealed, you may want to simply say no, take backperformance (the buyer either goes through with the
your deposit, and move on.purchase or, more likely, pays damages). But few
Or you may want to negotiate some more.sellers really want to go to court and fewer actually
You do this by letting the sellers know (through theirdo. Buyer with gall and the willingness to risk a lot
agent, if they have one) that you disapprove of thehave pulled off some amazing deals in this fashion.
disclosures because of the problem(s) they reveal.Negotiate After You Own the Property
However, you're willing to go throughwith the deal ifIt is possible to get a better deal even after the
the sellers either repair the problem or reduce theescrow has closed and you take possession of the
price. If it's price you want, you indicate what youproperty. This frequently happens when buyers
consider to be a fair pricefindsomething amiss, and demand that sellers make it
(sometimes a figure significantly lower than what wasgood.
originally agreed upon), and negotiations begin again.In one case, the buyers discovered after they
Typically the sellers will balk, but if they want to sellmoved in that the sellers had allowed their pets torun
and there is a problem, they very likely will counterwild over much of the home. A urine smell
your offer. Back and forth it goes until both partiespermeated the wall-to-wall carpeting in several rooms.
feel they can live with the same set of terms. IfThe smell had not been detected earlier because the
something significant was revealed in the disclosureswindows were always open when the buyers
(or if you said that, in you view, what was revealedinspected the property. Further, the sellers had failed
was important), you may get a significant priceto disclose this problem.
reduction or better terms.It's important to understand that animal urine in
Negotiate Over the Home Inspectioncarpeting cannot really be removed. The smell will
The next negotiation frequently occurs over theremain, often permeating the padding and even the
results of the home inspection.flooring beneath.
It's rare that a home inspection, even of a brandThe buyers demanded that the sellers replace not
new home, will reveal nothing. Usually there'sjust the carpeting in the rooms with the problem, but
something, even if it's just leaking faucets. Dependingalso the carpeting throughout the house, since it was
on the severity of the problem(s) discovered, savvyall of a kind. They said it wouldn't look right to have
buyersnow open negotiations all over again.just a few rooms fixed. After conferring with their
How can you do this? Remember, a good inspectionagent, the sellers agreed.
clause is actually a contingency that, in effect, makesThen the buyers picked out the carpeting, which was
the purchase subject to the buyer's approving thevalued at close to $15,000, installed. The sellers
inspection report. You don't approve. There's nobalked, but when confronted with the cost and
dealunless the seller is willing to come down in pricepossible outcome if the matter went to litigation,
or up in terms.they sent the buyers a check for that amount.
Keep in mind that problems such as these usuallyAs long as there are problems, you can negotiate
arise two weeks or so after the deal was originallywith the sellers. In some cases, even if the problem
signed. During those two weeks the sellers haveis something you imagine, you can still negotiate and
begun making plans to move. They may even havewin concessions simply because the sellers don't want
put down a deposit and made a deal on anotherto bother with the nuisance.
home. They are counting on your deal going through.Remember, to paraphrase Yogi Berra, the deal isn't
Now, suddenly, there's a hitch. As the buyer, you areover until it's over.
balking at something that came up in the inspection.Don't pressure sellers too far. If you insist on
You can bet that the sellers are going to be eager tounreasonable demands, they may simply refuse and
smooth over the problem, if they can. I've seen dealsbuckle down, ready to fight you legally. That
where the price was knocked down $3,500 to handlecouldmean you'd lose the house and have legal
a problem with paint, $17,000 for a problem with aproblems to boot.
roof, and $35,000 to accommodate a problem with